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There’s Someone Else

Someone else? How could there possibly be someone else? She told you she loved you and even when you were breaking up she didn’t really cut the ties with you. You thought that this was just a short break-up and that you’ll be back together again in no time. And out of nowhere this new man comes to take your spot. The wound of the heart wasn’t healed yet and she comes out with this statement and that statement acts as a hefty sum of salt sprayed all over your broken heart. What do you do now? Have you ever felt this in life and didn’t know what to do? Well, there are two difficult ways of handling this. I’ll say this right now, there’s never an easy way of handling the discovery that the one you love has found herself a new man who she tells you she has grown to love.

“How and when?” is the first thought that enters the mind. How could she love another after what you two shared, and when the fuck did she have the time to find another man. Was it while you were thinking about her and she was out partying and hooking up with guys? Then you need to compromise that thought and really raise your self-esteem. This salt on the wound destroys that glimmer of hope I mentioned and there’s nothing else to grab onto… for now.

The Weak Way

To those who say that it’s all a process, I think that this is only true in parts. Because even though it’s a process going from weak to strong, you have the power to push through and make the “weak way” of handling this discovery go by much faster. The weak way is composed of complete self-destruction of confidence, desire, and anything that once kept you going. You may begin to drink, search through photos and memories, listen to the blues, and do all that other shit you see in movies, but the faster you go through this the better. I don’t want to spend too much time on this because this part of the process is just your own battle with yourself and that includes the worst thing you thought possible mixed with hating yourself for seeming so weak.

The Strong Way

Once you realize your foolishness and weakness, it’s time to rebuild yourself. Many times this includes having a total different outlook on women, but sometimes it also includes an embrace. An embrace of what exactly? Well, an embrace of your life as complete and utter free man. You don’t need to think about her at all anymore, you don’t need to think whether she’s as miserable as you, and you don’t ever again need to feel guilt for having fun with other women. You need to get you priorities straight and also have to enjoy your life. Remember that women are as I said, "experienced, vile minxes" and you must treat them as such, never forgeting that this whole conception of love is just a cliché of bullshit and lost hope. Go forward with life and have fun with as many women as you can, focus on the bigger goals in life, and never think back on the “what ifs”.

via : RobbyG